Tuesday, November 4, 2008

A QUICK GLIMPSE OF NANCHANG

This morning we took a walk down to Pedestrian Road, which is a long street of shops where no cars are allowed, only pedestrians. Thus the name, I guess.


Now, you might think walking the streets is an easy task, but take a look at the intersections we have to cross (a view from our hotel room) ...

Here's our first glimpse of Pedestrian Road ...

And a few more views ...










It was on this road where I first saw a little one using the convenience of their split pants ... a little boy being held by a man just peeing on the road. I've read stories, but finally saw with my own two eyes.

Rick was excited to see a Nike store. I wanted to take another picture, but was asked not to by one of the store workers.



Jim and Susie, if you ever visit this area, here is the place to go if you're craving a thick, juicy "am-bu-ger."


Oooohhh, and in case anyone's interested, Valentino's is having a nice sale today.


Here are the Grandma's with their sweet Malia. They are both having a very hard time not picking her up and kissing her all over. We so appreciate their patience with us!



We got many stares on our trip today. People are very curious and so very friendly. No "clothing police" yet.



Notice Malia crying in the above picture. She's been rather temperamental and doesn't like anyone but Daddy - and sometimes Mommy and Spencer - touching her.


And Dad, just in case you were wondering ... Mom's been shmoozing the locals here as well. I guess it spans the globe!


On our way back to the hotel, we decided to make a stop at the local grocery store where Rick ventured to our first day here.


It started off looking rather normal ...


They even have a beautiful produce section ...


But this is the view that led me to believe that "we weren't in Kansas anymore" ...


And then it got REALLY different. Snout, anyone?


Or maybe some intestine?


??????!!!


Then onto the seafood section, we have FRESH squid ...


Fish and crab ...


More fish, something that curls up and frog on ice ...


Kyle W., this ones for you. How about some REAL jerky?



Needless to say, we'd lost our appetite by the time we got back to the hotel.

A FEW MORE PHOTOS FROM YESTERDAY'S OUTING

At the Notary's Office where our adoption became official ...


Outside the police station ...


Waiting to get Malia's passport photo taken at the police station ...


And, one more view of the escalator at Walmart ...

Monday, November 3, 2008

A WORD FROM SPENCER

If you are reading this you have probably seen a good number of Malia pic's. You've also probably copied pictures onto your computer because she is just that cute.So far she hasn't cried too much and she is loving the buffet food. She has the cutest laugh and is super cute when she sucks on her thumb. She has slept through the nights so far and loves Honey Nut Cheerio's. Mom and Dad say that she is a sleep fighter. She loves taking naps on mom and dads big bed, below is a picture of Malia and me.

Along with getting Malia China has been AWSOME!!! I am going to get all my friends some really cool Chinese statue. If mom hasn't already mentioned it then I'll tell you, I made it to the third tower of the Great Wall. Dad made it all the way to the sixth, that was as far as we could go.

-Spencer-

MALIA IS OFFICIALLY OURS TODAY!

We're doing well here in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province. Malia slept really well last night. She took a nap from 6:00 - 8:00 pm, woke up and ate some cereal and only a little formula. Then back to sleep from 9:00 pm to 5:30 am. She wimpered a few times through the night, but didn't really wake up. And, she's a very fidgety sleeper. Her head started at one end of the crib but was at the opposite end when she awoke this morning. Hoping for another good night tonight.

I don't think she's liking our formula or our bottles, but we're making do. She drinks water when she gets thirsty. And, let me just say our skinny-minny is quite an eater despite her pettite size. She loves mashed up table food and adorably shakes her head "no" if she's not ready for another bite. In fact, we are learning that she is a girl who knows what she wants and definitely knows what she doesn't want ... if you know what I mean.

Now, before I get into details about our day, I wanted to post a view from our hotel room. We've learned that Jiangxi Province is a very poor province and this is very evident from this picture ...


We drove around some this afternoon for appointments and got to see some of the side streets of Nanchang. It was quite an eye-opener. But there is a square downtown that is very nice and full of history. There are also palm trees in this area (that seem out of place in this foreigner's opinion).

Okay, back to Malia. She is a very good sleeper, like I mentioned above, but she's also taken heavy naps today. This is how she spent all of her morning nap ...




Yep, she "watched" the Colts game on the internet with her Daddy. And yes, she is a Daddy's girl. It's so sweet to watch them together. And, Carmen, I have to share that your comment in our Gotcha Day post really touched him to the core.

Spencer has gotten a few giggles out of her. He's trying really hard to make her happy and laugh. It's truly an adjustment for him, as well as Malia. A little more so than we imagined.


On to our appointments ... We first made a stop at the Notary's Office where we were asked our ages and occupations, as well as "are you pleased with your child," to which we quickly replied "yes!" It was at this office that we were given Malia's official Certificate of Adoption, which means in the eyes of China she is legally our daughter. Woohooo!!! (My Mom has a great picture of us holding our certificates, but she doesn't have her cable to download pictures into the computer. Sorry!)

We then headed to the police station to apply for her passport and get her photo taken. Quick, simple and easy. And it was here that we were gathering on the sidewalk to wait for the last couple of families to finish up when some locals began to stop and stare and try to talk with us. Of course I'm sure we were making a sight - caucasian adults holding Asian babies coming out of a police station? Not an every day scene in downtown Nanchang.

And then we got stared at some more as we shopped at the local Walmart store that occupied the second and third floor of a building. The third floor had everything but groceries, which were located on the second floor along with the check-out registers. How do you get your cart from the third floor to the second floor and vice versa? Well, by a flat escalator, that's how!


Notice the areas on the sides and down the middle lined with merchandise to buy. You know, just in case something catches your eye on the ride down (or up). And, on a side note, you should have seen the people pointing at our cart and jabbering away in Chinese. Why? Because Rick had us get 13 bottles of Coke, that's why! But to make this a sweet trip, an elderly employee stopped to smile at Malia while we were waiting to check out, and gave her a big thumbs up.

I have to share that we have one LARGE group of families in our travel group, so we make quite a scene when we go out. You know when you visit a historical place in the US and you see all sorts of native people on tours going around taking pictures of everything? Well, that's our group here in China! It's really quite comical.

Our outing today began at 2:00 pm and ended around 5:30 pm, but it seemed like an all day event. Malia was a trooper through it all, especially since she was tired most of the time - even napping through part of it. She gets whiny or discontent a lot, but is easily entertained by us giving her a new toy or Cheerios to munch on. She LOVES peek-a-boo, which makes her giggle and smile. And one other tid-bit about Malia that makes us laugh ... she loves to rock herself back and forth. She really has fun with this.

Tonight she had her first bath with us. This was quite an event. She HATED it! The hotel has a little baby bathtub in the room, which we used. We had quite a time getting her to sit down in it. She cried and screamed, but was sporadically distracted by some floating bubbles from the soap. At least she's a CLEAN crying and screaming baby.


And she's now sleeping quite contently in my bed. Both the guys are sleeping as well. And, it's not even 8:00 pm here in China ...


Tomorrow is a free day and we'll get to do some exploring with our guides Elsie and Chloe, who are wonderful and very helpful. I'm really looking forward to having the chance to snap photos of this area. Unfortunately, our request for an orphanage visit was declined. So getting as many pictures of the province's capital will have to do.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

FOR YOUR VIEWING PLEASURE ...





We're off to the store for more pop ... Rick is about to go through withdrawal. We'll post more later!

FROM HAPPY ENDINGS TO NEW BEGINNINGS

We have our Malia!!!!!!! She is precious and adorable and perfect!Dad and Tom, take a look at your new granddaughter!

She's done really well despite these life-changing circumstances. She has a raspy little cry, which is so sweet, and we've gotten a few giggles.




She's a wiggle-worm and likes to kick her feet. No wonder her report says she sometimes "kick bed creaking." Notice the missing sock in the above picture. She has teeth! Four on top and two on bottom. And look at that hair!!! The bows and barrettes are calling. She's a thumb-sucker. Nicole, she sucks her thumb with her fingers on her nose just like Madis-Anne!! You do remember my prayer, right?

Tonya, she came in split pants, but with a diaper (thank goodness)! I can't wait for you to walk through this part of the journey! It is so amazing!!!

She hasn't eaten yet, is very sleepy, but won't fall asleep for the life of her. (Well, okay, she just fell asleep laying beside her Daddy. But, it took awhile!)

Lord, we are most thankful for this amazing child and for the gift of parenthood. May we follow Your guidance to raise our two wonderful children in a way that glorifies Your goodness.

Thank you everyone for your prayers. They have meant so much and have made this day so wonderful. We'll post more later!!

Dana, Lily is doing great! I can't wait for you to finally hold her. Brian and Kelly said you got to talk with her and see her. She is absolutely beautiful!

Saturday, November 1, 2008

OUR AMAZING DAY

We've had a day packed with sights from historic China. It's been awesome!

We began at Tienanmen Square, which was packed with thousands upon thousands of people. It was here that we experienced the art of pushing your way through a crowd. It was interesting to watch the Chinese people do this, and it appears that there really is an art to it. I say, bring on the Christmas shopping crowds!


We also got our group picture taken here. Then it was a quick trip across the road to the Forbidden City (or the Not-So-Forbidden City, according to Rick). This place is so huge it's beyond comprehension. The buildings are incredibly ornate and there are so many of them! It's hard to fully realize that we were walking on grounds that were once forbidden to the world. What a privilage to be there.



Then it was on to a restaurant for lunch of authentic Chinese cuisine, including the infamous Peking Duck. It was wonderful food! And, with our tummies full we headed to the Great Wall. And let me just say that the "Great" in Great Wall doesn't do it justice. And, unfortunately neither do pictures. In the words of my Mom, "Wow! I don't know what to say, but Wow!" It truly is magnificent.






Dad, this picture is for you. I know how you love to take unique and silly pictures.


And, I would like to give a BIG thumbs up to my husband who hiked to the sixth tower, which is as far as you can go in the area we were in. He's such a stud! Way to go, Babe!

We all hiked our way to the second tower, with Spencer going a little further to the third tower.

Okay, I just have to share a little sidenote about the driving in Beijing. I do believe that the little white lines that create lanes are mere suggestions to Chinese drivers. In fact, if you'd like to make your own lane, say the fourth or fifth in a three lane highway, you go right ahead. Many horns are heard as drivers warn people to get out of the way or get run over. And, I do declare that anyone who rides a bike or moped on the highways should receive medals of bravery.


NOW TO THE MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION ...

We are to meet in the lobby by 5:15 am to head to the airport for our flight to Nanchang. We will meet our babies at the hotel at 3:00 pm China time. Which means, we have less than 24 hours before we meet Malia!!!! Our next post should be of our long awaited Gotcha Day!